
Do you know your neighbors??
Actually I don't. I know what they look like and we wave if we see each other but I we never got to know them. It's very odd for me.
I grew up knowing all my neighbors, their names, how many children they had, what schools they went to and even their musical tastes if one of them had the bad taste of playing his music too loud. We shared happy events like weddings and births and we were there for each other in time of sorrows. You could always call on a neighbor for help or a cup of flour.
So what is so unconducive to neighborly relationships in my new neighborhood. I would like to blame it on the large lots, the house being far away from the street, the lack of sidewalks or maybe the absence of porches. The truth is that we never really tried or took the time to cross the yard or the street, walk up the driveway ring the bell and say hello.
This morning I had to call my neighbor because of a fallen tree. They've moved to Seattle and I had to contact their Realtor to get their information. So now we will have to talk to each other about estimates and insurances claims. Now it's really not conducive to friendship.
In the midst of all of this I decided I will get to know my neighbors. I will ring their bell and introduce myself...and if nothing comes out of it, I would at least have tried.